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By John Cook, based on research by Elaine Appleing |
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Ella Appleing (nee Cook)
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I Never Knew My Auntie Ella
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Walter Cook was born in Horncastle, Lincolnshire, in 1880. By 1901 he was resident and working in Rushden and in that year married Gertrude Hannah Desborough at Felmersham. During the next eight years Walter and Gertrude lived at various Rushden addresses including 78 Glassbrook Road, 55 High Street, and 100 Cromwell Road (‘The Rock’). In March 1909 the couple were living at 158 Wellingborough Road. By now they had five children Sarah - or ‘Liz’ as she was known (8), Walter (6), Herbert, my dad, (5), Ella (4) and Lilly (2). Then tragedy struck. On the 9th of March Walter (senior), now a boot factory foreman, was struck down with appendicitis and, we understand, was rushed off to Northampton Hospital in the Rushden Horse Ambulance. Sadly, he died on arrival at the hospital. Gertrude (age 29) and her young family were left destitute and in due course Gertrude was forced to take desperate measures.
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Bert never lost touch with his family in Rushden and his maternal grandparents at Radwell. Indeed, in his late teens, he walked from Radwell to Kempston, near Bedford, where he enlisted in The Bedfordshire and Hertfordshire Regiment for a twelve year stint. Much of this was spent in India but on his return he married Dora Kingston of Kempston. They set up home at 30 Crabb Street in Rushden and this was to be our home for the next thirty years. Recalled to the colours in 1940, Bert spent most of the war years in Monty’s Eighth Army. On his return to Rushden he worked as yard foreman for the Peck family, both in Washbrook Road and later in their Calor Gas operation in Higham Road. His last job was as caretaker at the John White factory in Newton Road. Only Bert’s extreme ill health forced him and Dora to leave Rushden in 1964. They then went to live near my sister Margaret who was teaching in Stourport-on-Severn. By then I was serving in the Army myself. Dora died in 1966 and Bert in 1968. |
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Bachelor Walt also kept in touch with his Rushden roots although he lived and worked in London. If we were lucky, Margaret and I would bump into him on the Birch’s bus (when we were travelling to Bedford and him to London). There was half-a-crown in it for each of us. Ella’s story is even more poignant and dramatic because Gertrude was forced, by circumstance, to allow Ella to be adopted by Mr. and Mrs. Jesse Brown of Wellingborough.
Derek Appleing (Ella’s son) writes: Jesse Brown was a well known figure amongst the townsfolk of Wellingborough where he conducted a millinery business. He was involved in many activities within the town including being a Special Constable and the Secretary of the local branch of the One Man Business Association. In addition, he was for six years the Pastor of the chapel at Grendon village, and it was here that he became aware of the plight of Gertrude Cook. Because of the location of Grendon it is unlikely that she was a member of his ‘flock’ but because of his position she was brought to his attention. This subsequently led to his adoption of Ella to help alleviate the hardship being experienced in the Cook household, and because he and Millie were childless. There were no adoption laws at the time but an agreement was drawn up between the parties. We are advised that the document was somewhat unusual for the time, and in particular the codicil which generously gave most benefit to Ella. |
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Ella was never forgotten by the rest of the Cook family. Liz named her eldest daughter Doreen Ella (Tebbutt) and my own mother often quoted ‘Ella Brown’ when reminding us that there were musical ‘genes’ in the Cook family. I am sure that Ruby Baxter (Rushden music teacher) would agree that none of them came my way although Margaret was somewhat more successful in her endeavours and, as a teacher, could at least play ‘Morning is Breaking’ at school assembly. However, Family Cook knew little of Ella’s later life until we were contacted by Elaine Appleing in 2004. Elaine is Ella’s granddaughter and has researched Ella’s life extensively, kindly providing much of the material for this article. Ella married Norman Appleing at Earls Barton in October 1934. After their marriage, Norman and Ella lived in Chingford, Essex where their two children, Derek (Elaine’s father) and Patricia, were born. Later, the family moved to Woolacombe in Devon where they ran a guest house before they bought and ran the local newsagents. Norman and Ella retired in Woolacombe about 1975 and Ella died of a stroke in 1981 followed by Norman a year later. Elaine best remembers Ella for her patience, love and cooking but unfortunately, and with great regret, I cannot possibly comment because ....... I never knew my Auntie Ella
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John W C Cook, 2009 |
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